Performanta prin Ascultare si Compasiune (NI #46)
Despre cum a facut performanta David Popovici
Salutare!
Am sa incep sa scriu si ganduri si chestii asa mai scurte si mai pe impuls, sper sa va inspire! Am observat ca dezvolta Substack si aceast feature de “Notes“, si cred ca merita incercat si folosit.
Asadar, o prima nota :).
Tocmai am vazut un mic interviu cu Adrian Radulescu - antrenorul lui David Popovici, mare inotator si sportiv si campion mondial. E un proiect dezvoltat de Andrei Gosu si Ascendis, l-au anuntat pe LinkedIn.
Adrian e un tip tanar, are 33 de ani, dar e deja un mare performer, in sensul ca l-a ajutat pe David sa devina recordman mondial. Deci, are rezultate, stie ce face, merita ascultat si luat in seama.
Zice asa, textual: “ Cred ca sportivul nu are nevoie de pedeapsa, ci mai degraba de ascultare si compasiune.”
Pe mine m-a lovit rau zicerea asta, pentru ca am fost educat destul de mult si prin pedeapsa, si, ce sa vezi, am dus asta mai departe, dupa principiul maimuta vede - maimuta face. Posesor de 4 copii fiind, am dat pedepse si am gresit cat pentru 5 vieti, si imi pare tare rau pentru asta, dar nu mai pot schimba nimic. Norocul meu este ca am o sotie mult mai desteapta decat mine, se tot chinuie cu mine de vreo 20 de ani sa ma educe si cizeleze, si sa imi elimine comportamentele gresite.
Asadar, va invit sa reflectati la pedeapsa, versus nevoia reala a unui om - ascultare si compasiune. Ati fost pedepsiti in viata voastra? Ati dat pedepse? Cum te simti cand simti ca esti ascultat cu adevarat? Cum te simti cand simti compasiune?
Ce merge mai bine, ascultarea si compasiunea, sau pedeapsa?
Pace si iubire sa aveti!
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